The deciding factor between success and failure is caused by something so simple, so easy that you overlook that critical difference that would have brought you victory.
It’s like that time you spent an hour and a half looking for your car keys; you overturned every couch cushion and checked every dusty nook and cranny in your house only to find that they were in the pocket of the jeans you
If you had just checked the most likely location first you would have found them, instead, you unknowingly made things more complicated than they needed to be. So it is with many things in life…particularly with getting women.
After hearing so much increasingly in depth and complex advice on getting women you maystart to ignore the simple; glossing over it as “heard-that-before-information” or, worse, searching for that elusive phantom secret
that will make everything click; magically transforming you into the stud you know you should be.
This is bad because the simple stuff usually makes the BIGGEST difference while the more complex and, admittedly, interesting stuff is more for fine tuning an already well-oiled machine – it actually makes LESS of a
difference to your “game.”
In other words, you being successful at dating and attracting women has less to do with deep psychological analysis and understanding the evolution of the female mind (or any other such speculation and theory spouting) and MORE to do with all that “simple stuff” that you were so quick to skim over and ignore in the past.
Here are some simple solutions for success with women that can make a BIG impact on your success:
Do you usually take the bus? Try walking. Like to eat at that Italian deli for lunch? Try the Greeks down the street. Do you normally workout at night? Try going to the gym in the morning. Do you usually hang out with your best friends on Saturday night? Go out with different people to a different place. Do you generally stay in on Friday nights? Good heavens man… GO OUT!
A simple change in routine will put you in different situations where you will run into different women.
Think positive…many times in your life you didn’t meet that great new woman because your sour, pessimistic mind wouldn’t let you…you had nothing to say and no idea what to do … you were too busy dwelling in negativity.
These simple changes… just might mean the difference between being “that lonely guy” and being that chap that every girl has on her wish list.